Welcome to our faq, beauty!
*Please read this faq before contacting us in case your question has already been answered.*
Below you'll find information about wands, yoni eggs, ordering, & shipping.
What is a yoni wand?
Wow beautiful, you're in for a treat! Our pleasure wands are hand-crafted works of art made from materials that are the vibe (glass & crystal). They're designed for women and people with yonis who are on self-love, empowerment, & sexual integration journey. Using our pleasure wands can radically transform your relationship to your body & self. Each pleasure wand is infused with genuine love, care, and intention for every woman in the collective to RISE.
We're not about "shaming" vibrators, they can be a beautiful way to discover your pleasure and can be a part of the sexual journey. However, it's important to note that sometimes vibrators can desensitize the sensitivity in your yoni, give your pelvic floor a faux relaxation, & may contain phthalates & toxic BPAs!
The founder Miranda Amora, asked the earth, Mother Nature, if she had permission to use her resources in devotion to people with yonis experiencing their self-love, magnetism, sensuality, & power. She said "yes, but please do not use plastic." So, Mother Nature has provided the collective these beautiful natural materials so you can holistically tap into the truth of your body. We The Goddess pleasure wands are in deep service of the sensitivity of your yoni, activation of your body's pleasure + magnetism, and the empowerment of your whole being.
We believe experiencing the magic of pleasure wands in service to your sexual awakening & journey. Women who consciously self-pleasure with our wands say they feel more sensation, aliveness, confidence, power, pleasure, & self-love. It's so deep & beautiful...
What does yoni mean?
Yoni is the Sanskrit word for “sacred place" and we use it to refer to your vulva, vagina, & sometimes other sexual organs.
Are pleasure wands like vibrators?
No, to be honest. Our wands don't vibrate. The current climate with vibrators tends to be all about getting to the goal (aka climax orgasm) as fast as possible, and that’s not how your feminine pleasure and orgasmic nature thrive.
The art of feminine sensuality is grounded in slowness, goalless-ness, & presence so you can unfold into the vast mystery of your pleasure. Our pleasure wands help build your capacity to feel sensation inside your yoni, deepen into slowness, & hold pleasure in your body. This can lead you into expanded pleasure & mystical orgasmic states. Pleasure wands are like the yoga of self-pleasure in the way that it’s a practice & it’s all about present moment awareness, your breath, and the authentic connection to your body.
Help! Which wand do I choose!? I really can't decide...
We recommend to always intuitively choose your wand. Trust yourself. You can do this by grounding into your breath and feeling your body while you look at each wand.
Where do you feel the most energy?
What's your body's somatic response?
Which one are you pulled towards?
Which one makes you feel bubbly, expanded, & excited?
Your intuition knows. Always remember that you get to have more than one wand in your collection. Women usually have multiple pleasure wands for different uses as they continue on their journey of exploration. You get to have it all! ;)
If you still aren’t sure, this practical guide may help below:
Self-love, prosperity, & sensuality. Will bring the light of happiness to you & increase creativity. Associated with the base & heart chakra.
Enhances beauty, sensuality, & serenity. Very grounding, calming, & balancing. Associated with the root chakra.
Enhances clarity, purity, & inner knowing. Very pure & powerful for creating intentions.
Clearing negative emotions, releasing sexual tension, & integrating traumas. Associated with the root chakra & primal nature. Protecting & grounding.
Also, different yonis like different shapes and sizes! If size is a concern, it's always best to start with a smaller size and see how that feels before purchasing a bigger one.
As stated above, the thinner and smaller wands are The Maya, The Iris, Aurora, La Luna, and La Bella. The thicker/larger wands are Blush, Estrella, Venus Rising, and Scorpio Moon.
Eevery wand can provide you with your desires & intentions. Just because we suggest certain wands for clearing emotion, sexual integration, or self-love, doesn't mean the other ones won’t provide that as well. These are only suggestions based on the shape & crystal properties. Always trust your feminine intuition because there's a science to intention-- with the power of intention, you'll receive exactly what you desire :)
*Please Note* The wand that arrives to your home chooses you as much as you choose her. Each wand is a unique work of art. That's the beauty of them-- they are a masterpiece. Crystals are natural elements from mama earth so there's different colors, patterning, lines, streaks, & curves. Plus, all our wands (including glass wands) are handmade, so they vary slightly in shape/color/patterns.
What's included with my wand?
Every pleasure wand includes care instructions and a eco-luxury linen pouch for safe-keeping (handmade in Bali). You're also invited to join us in our safe sisterhood community on Facebook.
How do I use my wand for maximum pleasure?
This is one of our favorite questions. Unfortunately, we were never given a set of instructions on how to self-pleasure, rather a societal set of conditioning, so most of our bodies don’t feel safe holding pleasure and we rush to a goal to release our sexual energy. The beauty of pleasure wands is that they will take you on a sensual journey. Imagine your self-pleasure practice like a flower, you plant the seed and let it grow & open without rushing it. Try creating an intention, dancing, singing, warming up your entire body & breasts before insertion. This precious time with yourself is a romantic date. Ask your yoni for consent before entering. Breathe, sound, open, & explore. Experiment with yourself and a partner(s). There are limitless possibilities. Let the experience unfold.
Pleasure wands have the ability to assist in integrating & embracing both spirituality & sexuality. We also love using pleasure wands for de-armoring & vaginal trigger point release which releases physical and energetic tension. The wands can bring up emotions to be processed and released, making more room for pleasure, expansion, & surrender.
Work with the wand is extensive material and there are many practices you can journey with (similar to the depth of yoga practice). It's very common and highly recommended to invest in courses and in a spiritual sexuality mentor. We all need support in in authentic self-love, sexuality, sensuality, & empowerment.
Note: Do not put the wand in boiling water, the microwave, the freezer, in the oven, or over a flame. Treat your yoni wand with utmost respect and care. Use internally at your own discretion as with all insertable products.
How do I clean and take of my wand?
We insert care instructions with each wand upon purchase. It’s super easy, you’ll wash your wand before your first use with warm water & chemical-free soap or vagina friendly soap. Always hand dry your pleasure wand with a cloth. Do not put the wand in boiling water, the microwave, the freezer, in the oven, or over a flame. Cherish your yoni wand with utmost respect and care. Use internally at your own discretion as with all insertable products.
Why "cleanse" my wand?
Energy is mass that moves faster than the speed of light. Everything is energy. Every physical item holds energy, including your wand. You’ll want to cleanse the energy when you receive your wand and throughout the lifetime of your wand because it clears space for new energy to come through. You can cleanse energy by bathing the wand in sunlight/moonlight, dipping the wand into the ocean/saltwater, giving it a sound bath, reiki, sage, speaking, etc.
How do I store my wand?
In a safe space free of too much sunlight or chemicals. Make sure there is nothing that will damage or harm it. Every wand comes with a luxury linen pouch for safekeeping. Store your wand somewhere safe like in a drawer or closet.
Is it safe to use lube?
We love organic, natural lubes! Please do not use massage oil or moisturizer as a lubricant.
Will my glass/crystal wand break?
Glass & crystal are hard, durable materials. Of course though, glass and crystal are fragile materials that are susceptible to breaking under certain circumstances. For instance, wands are fragile to shocks like drastic temperature changes (going from extreme cold to extreme hot) and high impact drops (being dropped on a hard surface). So definitely store the wand in your eco-luxury linen pouch somewhere safe where it cannot drop & break. Always take care of your wand and it won't break. Do not use if chipped, cracked, or broken in any way. Always inspect your wand before every use to make sure that there are no damages. If there's something wrong upon arrival, please reach out to us.
Does using glass/crystal feel pleasurable?
While yes the material of glass & crystal is “hard,” the texture is smooth & silky and feels delicious inside. Try it out ;)
Can I make my wand cold or warm?
Absolutely, that’s a beautiful way to get creative. Warm up the wand under warm water or by holding it in your hands! Cool it by running under cold water or putting it in the refrigerator. Always test the temperature on a different part of your body before inserting it into your yoni.
Do not put the wand in boiling water, the microwave, the freezer, in the oven, or over a flame. We do not recommend changing the temperature REALLY fast (hot to cold or vice versa) because it could shock the wand and cause fractures or breakage.
Are your wands GIA certified?
The first batch of crystals from our suppliers have been verified by our local, GIA-certified jeweler as authentic & real. If you'd like to purchase a certification for your specific wand, please contact us to discuss!
I identify as male, can I still purchase your wands?
Absolutely! Our wands are for all humans with yonis or without yonis who want to explore their bodies & cultivate holistic sexual energy. You can also purchase wands as gifts for lovers.
Will you be getting more kinds of wands?
YES! We're currently working on a simple design for a super special wand :) We're also manifesting a few more in each crystal/glass type. Join our email community at the bottom of our website to be the first to know!
What are yoni eggs and where do they come from?
Yoni eggs are said to have come from the sacred Taoist tradition of China. Some say practicing with the jade egg is spoken of in the Yellow Emperor’s Classic of Medicine, a Chinese medical text from 100 BC. Others say it was a secret kept only for the royal empresses & concubines of Emperors who used the egg to become extraordinary lovers, tap into their vitality, & harness their spiritual potential.
Many utilize the jade egg to enhance their body's sensitivity, expand their orgasmic nature & capacity, and create beautiful opportunities to shift their relationship with their sexuality, body, & self.
Yoni egg practices are the "yoga" of the yoni. Just like yoga is more than just stretching, yoni egg practices are more than just doing Kegels. You're combining your self-development journey with your intention and merging the physical, mental, emotional, energetic, & spiritual.
What's included with my yoni egg?
Every jade yoni egg includes a eco-luxury linen pouch for safe-keeping (handmade in Bali) and care instructions. You're invited to join other women in our safe sisterhood community on Facebook. Our Nephrite Jade yoni eggs do not come with medical grade string or unwaxed dental floss. We're working on stocking those items but for now please purchase on your own :)
Why Nephrite Jade?
It's called the "stone of heaven" in Chinese culture. Technically, nephrite comes from the Greek word, "nephros" which means 'kidney.' It's said that this stone can bring good luck, protection, prosperity, & health. Nephrite Jade feels soothing and pure. It may amplify the body's natural integration process.
Nephrite Jade is dense, pure, heavy, & hard. It has a tightly packed interwoven fibrous structure, making it heavier than most stones! It's harder than steel. It's perfect for a yoni egg. Also, Nephrite Jade is the stone said to be used in the tradition of yoni egg practices.
How do I store my egg?
Store your egg in the eco-luxury pouch we provide you. We suggest keeping it somewhere safe where it won't drop, like your lingerie drawer. Make sure it's safe from chemicals & too much sunlight. Always inspect your egg for cracks, chips, or damages before practicing with your yoni egg.
How do I wash my egg?
Immediately rinse your egg (especially the drilled hole to remove fluids). Some women like to use soft bristle toothpicks to clean the drilled hole. Wash with warm water & vagina-friendly soap after each use. You can put ten drops of betadine or iodine into a glass of water & place the egg in it. Rinse again. Additionally, you can put your yoni egg into a teacup and pour gently-boiled water over your egg before/after each use. Dry with a soft cloth & store inside your pouch.
Make sure to use caution with boiling water. Don't burn yourself and don't touch/use the egg after it's been boiled. Don't create thermal shock by putting the egg through drastic changes in temperature (i.e. from boiling water to extremely cold water).
Why do I need to cleanse my egg?
Energy is mass that moves faster than the speed of light. Everything is energy. Every physical item holds energy, including your wand. You’ll want to cleanse the energy when you receive your wand and throughout the lifetime of your egg because it clears space for new energy to come through. You can cleanse energy by bathing the egg in sunlight/moonlight, dipping the wand into the ocean/saltwater, giving it a sound bath, reiki, sage, speaking, etc.
How do I use, insert, & retrieve my yoni egg?
Your egg comes drilled with a hole sideways towards the smaller end so that you can tie a string to it before each use. We recommend using unwaxed, unflavored dental floss or medical-grade string. You'll tie a new string upon each use & discard the string afterward.
The most basic use of the egg is to string the egg, turn yourself on so you are fully aroused and lubricated, & then ask your yoni for consent to enter.
If she says NO, then practice without the egg inside.
If she says YES to the egg, then gently insert the larger end of the egg so that the string is facing down. You'll want to "yawn" your egg into your yoni. You can do this by yawning with your mouth & allowing your yoni to suction/pull the egg into her. Never force the egg inside with harshness. If your yoni is truly a YES, the egg will slide in with ease. There's never any rush to get your yoni egg inside. Take as long as you need. Treat your body with reverence, compassion, & love.
Once inside, feel the connection with your egg & yoni. You can inhale + squeeze the egg, then exhale + relax your pelvic floor completely-- so important. After 5-15 minutes, slowly pull out the egg using the string or gently squat the egg out. Soooo delicious! Note: if you need to go to the bathroom, retrieve and catch the egg beforehand or you might lose your beautiful egg!
Immediately rinse your egg (especially the hole to remove fluids). Wash with warm water & vagina-friendly soap after each use. You can put ten drops of betadine or iodine into a glass of water & place the egg in it. Rinse again. Additionally, you can put your yoni egg into a teacup and pour gentle boiling water over your egg before/after each use. Make sure to use caution with boiling water to not burn yourself and to not create thermal shock by drastic changes in temperature (i.e. going from boiling water to extremely cold water).
Yoni egg practices are the "yoga" of the yoni. Just like yoga is more than just stretching, yoni egg practices are more than just doing Kegels. You're combining your self-development journey with your intention and merging the physical, mental, emotional, energetic, & spiritual. Just like the tradition and practice of yoga is an extensive body of work, so is the practice of practicing with a yoni egg. So don't be afraid to take a jade yoni egg course or hire a 1:1 jade egg mentor if you wish to truly deepen your practice :)
How do I string my egg?
Your egg comes drilled with a hole sideways towards the smaller end so that you can tie a string to it before each use. We recommend using unwaxed, unflavored dental floss or medical-grade string. You'll tie a new string upon each use & throw away the string afterward. You can take about 20" of string & thread one end through the hole. Tie the ends together in a simple knot. The other way is to take about 20" of string & fold it in half so you have a loop on one end. Then thread the non-looped ends into the yoni egg hole. After that, thread the non-looped string into the loop. Pull the non-looped end up so the looped end secures down at the yoni egg. Our jade yoni eggs do not come with medical grade string or unwaxed dental floss. We're working on stocking those items but for now please purchase on your own :)
Is it safe to use with an IUD?
No, we don't recommend using the yoni egg with an IUD because the yoni egg's strings can get tangled with the IUD. That could potentially negatively affect your vagina & the contraceptive itself.
Is it safe to use lubricant?
We recommend that if you use one that it be organic/vegan, water-based, & non-toxic. Always test what works for you and always wash & dry your egg directly after use. Definitely do not use massage oil or moisturizer as a lubricant.
Is it safe to use on my period?
No, it's not recommended to use during menstruation as your body is releasing.
Is it safe to use when pregnant?
No, it's not recommended to use during pregnancy.
Can I use after childbirth?
Don't use immediately after childbirth. Generally speaking, usually women wait until their doctor gives them the okay for sex, but always consult your doctor to make sure it's safe.
Is it safe to use with a serious health condition or disease?
Don't practice with your egg with an active infection, yeast infection, or std outbreak. We recommend speaking with your doctor first, always.
Can it get lost inside my vagina? What if the string breaks?
No, the egg is too big to pass through your cervix. The cervix keeps the yoni egg inside your vaginal canal. If for some reason the string breaks, try not to panic or stress out. The yoni egg comes out if you relax, open, and breathe. Some eggs don't even have a drilled hole for string and the retrieval of the egg is part of a woman's practice. You'll want to squat and tap into your pelvic floor muscles to gently surrender and release the egg out. If squatting doesn't help, try standing or lying down. Additionally, you can massage your perineum and insert your fingers to help retrieve your yoni egg from the vagina. Take a break if you need to. Also, peeing, shaking, sounding, and laughing naturally squeezes the egg out. Always catch the egg with your hand so it doesn't drop onto the floor. If you still cannot retrieve the egg, consult your medical professional.
Can I sleep with my egg inside?
No, we don't recommend leaving it inside for longer than 2 hours to ensure your pelvic floor muscles can relax. When you hold the egg in for too long, it can actually be straining for your pelvic floor muscles (i.e. like if you hold a backpack on your back for too long).
Will my egg break?
Nephrite jade is dense, pure, heavy, & hard. It has a tightly packed interwoven fibrous structure, making it heavier than most stones! It's also harder than steel.
Being said, it's still a fragile item... so please don't drop it. Always inspect your egg for damages before you practice & store your egg in the eco-luxury linen pouch somewhere safe where it can't drop and break.
Will you be getting smaller size or larger size yoni eggs?
The standard size is medium and the recommended size for most people practicing with jade egg. Medium is the size we currently offer. If you know you need a smaller/larger size yoni egg, please contact us.
Are your yoni eggs GIA certified?
Yes! They are certified.
Will you be getting yoni eggs made of different types of crystals?
As of right now, we won't. Reason being is that the founder Miranda Amora, learned from her jade egg teacher & certification that the yoni egg tradition highly recommends only using Nephrite Jade (and Black Obsidian/Glass). It's up to the individual whether to follow the tradition or not, but at this moment, it feels most in integrity for Miranda to offer only Nephrite Jade with the potential of offering Black Obsidian later.
Can I put the yoni egg into my rectum?
No, please don't! The rectum can swallow the egg into your body. The vaginal canal has a cervix at the top which prevents it from going further up into your body. The rectum continues to go deeper into your body without a stopping point. Yoni eggs don't have a base attached to them (like buttplugs), so please do not put them inside your rectum.
What currency are the prices displayed in?
All prices in the boutique are displayed in USD - United States Dollar.
Is tax included with the displayed price of the wand?
No. Each state is different so tax will be added upon checkout if it applies to your state.
What's included in the investment of the wand?
Our listed price includes the investment for the product. After that, additional shipping costs & taxes will be calculated at checkout and those will vary on based on where you're located.
For International Babes:
Besides that, the only extra fee would be if your order is subject to additional import taxes / VAT fees in your country of origin. It would be your responsibility to pay because these fees are separate from your purchases. We don't include International fees and VAT. We won’t refund any orders that are returned due to not paying the VAT, import tax, or international fees. We can't predict the fees. You can find more information by checking your country of origins guidelines. We hope you understand :)
How much does shipping cost?
The shipping cost varies depending on your location and is calculated at checkout.
Do you ship internationally?
Yes, babe. We ship to most of the world!
If for some reason it doesn't allow you to ship to your country, yours might not be in our system yet. Please contact us and we can help!
How long will it take my order to arrive?
We do our best to ship as soon as possible. How quickly the item arrives after our team of packing fairies ships it out is based on where you are located and the current postal times.
○ United States: estimated delivery is 3-15 business days
○ International: estimated delivery is 7-31 business days
Where's my order?
After your order is received, you'll receive an email confirming your order. Then once your order gets packaged, we'll send it out for delivery. When we send it out for delivery, you'll receive another email with a tracking number. You can check the status of your order through that tracking number with the postal service :)
○ United States: estimated delivery is 3-15 business days
○ International: estimated delivery is 7-31 business days
(excludes weekends & holidays)
*please note: shipments may take longer during holiday season. How quickly the item arrives after our team of packing fairies ships it out is based on where you are located and the current postal times.
If there are any concerns, please let us know ♡
What packaging does my product come in? Are you eco-friendly?
We desire to leave a minimal footprint on the planet. Although we aren’t perfect, we’re trying our absolute best to choose materials that leave less impact on mama earth (like cardboard, paper, and linen).
Right now we package our products in a cardboard box and wrap the product with corrugated cardboard (bubble wrap alternative) to keep the products safe for the shipping process.
Each wand/egg comes in a eco-luxury linen pouch made on the beautiful island of Bali. We chose linen because it's made from the flax plant, doesn't require tons of water/resources, has a no waste footprint, and is naturally biodegradable & recyclable. Other packing items include a paper care instruction card, a paper thank you card, & tissue paper. Our intention is for you to recycle most of the packaging.
Do you ship discreetly?
Your items will come in a discreet box without our brand name written on it. However, every international shipment will state what the true nature of the product is. This allows you to be refunded by the post if your item is lost.
Can I return my products?
No because they're truly intimate & hygienic items. If there are any issues with your product upon arrival to your home, please contact us.
What if my package is "returned to sender," can I be refunded?
Always make sure to write your proper address. We do our best to ensure your package gets to you safely. If your package is lost, undelivered, or seized internationally, we won’t be held responsible. Please email us and we’ll do our best to solve the situation :)
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